Is It gay If a girl uses a strap on dildo on a guy? I need to know cuz my gf wants to use a strap on dildo on me, and make me feel like I have a vagina cuz I picked on her how ***** are better than vaginas? Is It or not? |
Nope. There are plenty of straight men who enjoy anal stimulation. After all, we all have the same body parts, and they get stimulated and feel pleasure in the exact same way. To say that a man getting penetrated with a strap-on is gay is akin to say a woman receiving oral sex from a man is lesbian.
The only thing that makes you gay is if you desire men. If you're getting penetrated and are wishing it was a guy, then yeah, it's gay. But if it's a loving, kinky sex act between you and your girlfriend, then it's perfectly heterosexual.
Enjoy it and don't worry! |
Why is it that some women prefer using a dildo than having the real thing? I always wondered why. I mean, Samantha in Sex in the City made dildo like girl's best friend. Is it really? I'm curious why. |
We'll I would just say that some girls might like dildo's more for these reasons:
It will last as long as you want it to.
It won't mess up your tempo, when your almost there.
You are in complete and utter control, whatever you want goes!
You can get it the size that you want it.
And it can vibrate if you want it to.
However, it doesn't mean that it is better than a man. You can find a man that lasts a long time, and one that is good enough in bed to keep that tempo. Also, making love with a man that you love and loves you back, come on girl, if you have that option, dildo better get thrown out the window.
ps. I've used a vibrating dildo before though, and it wasn't doing anything that special. I would recommend a bigger dildo over a vibrating one. |
Has a girl ever used you as her human dildo? Doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend, husband or is single has a woman ever just used you for sex? |
| Nope. |
Is there anything that can be effected by a man using a dildo on himself? I am not gay because I have no attraction to men BUT I used it on myself and I was wondering if there is anything that as far as health goes that can be effected? Plus it seemed to make my heart beat harder and faster and I got dizzy why would this happen it never happened during sex with my girl friend or masturbation? |
| His Ego |
Can a girl lose her virginity by giving oral sex? I haven't but I just thought girl lose their virginities when they pop their cherries.
Also, what if a girl used a dildo on someone could she lose her virginity by doing that because it's not like it's biologically attached to her...? |
The definition of a virgin is someone who has not had sex before. The problem with society today is that they think "oral sex", is not considered real sex. This is why we have problems with STD's, and people not treating oral sex as they should, wearing protection and taking it seriously when it comes to choosing partners.
Yes a girl will lose her virginity by having oral sex performed on her. |
I showed my sister how to use a dildo? I don't want to ask my mom if it's right but last week I showed my little sister how to use my dildo because like every girl has one and things. But now like every morning before school she wants me to do it. I really just like seeing it go in and out it's funny but she keeps asking even after school. Is it wrong if it's just a funny thing? |
Get her one for herself and lock her in her room for an hour or so.
She'll have plenty of fun and you don't need to be there. |
Not another teen movie dildo?? in the begining of not another teen movie the girl used a dildo that that was movig all crazy lika ll around.
do they really move like that? |
| I haven't seen one myself but I wouldn't be surprised. Most of the time they just vibrate a lot or have a another attachment that moves. |
GF using huge dildo, becoming more loose? Have been dating the girl for about a year. We have sex often so I am familiar with how her vagina feels. Well, she got a dildo a month ago and I can tell when she uses it.
First off, I am just above average, and have accepted that. Imagine how I felt when I saw she purchased a dildo that is very large.
I have realized that she is loose before she got the dildo and now it is getting even worse. I can't talk to her about it because she gets defensive.......i dont know i just needed to vent =/
Feel so inadequete |
| Nope, didn't happen. I call BS. My ex wife had 3 guys and wasn't any looser after 8 pounds of baby went through there 3 times. I have fisted my girlfriend multiple times (guarantee my fist is bigger than your girl's dildo) and she's not any looser. Bull sh!t question. |
Does using large dildos ruin your sex with your husband? I was curious how many girls have used dildos that are much bigger than there husband or boyfriend. I bought my wife a large one a few months ago. I'm fairly large but this one definitely trumps me. she loves it and i love watching her with it but I wonder if she uses it too much will it make it difficult to enjoy regular sex with me. Just looking for any serious input on this from anyone who has had experience. Not interested in funny, annoying, or derogatory comments. |
It's bigger, newer, and different. Different doesn't have to mean bad.
The toy is never going to say I love you, snuggle up to her, make her feel better when she is sick, or from a sexual stand point, It can't pull her hair and smack her ***.
If she's using it and watching you enjoy her using it, she's probably getting of on that, more than the toy itself!
A little background- my hubby and I were only married a short time when I decided to sell toys at home-parties. Neither of us had ever used them before, I just wanted to make extra money. When he saw my starter kit, he was about ready to pack up and leave. He immediately assumed I no longer needed him because I'd have access to all these toys. What we have learned is, for us, toys have never become a replacement, but an ENHANCEMENT to our sex life. It's a very rare occasion that I use toys without him.
Oh- and as far as her "getting too loose", the vagina always returns to it's normal size, the muscular contractions that happen during orgasm see to that. So unless she's given birth in the past 20 minutes, she is the same size she was when you met. She can also do kegel exercises to maintain tightness. |